Men Don't Live Here Anymore

I was out last night at my usual club spot doing the usual do. At one point in the night, we noticed a girl whom no one knows hanging around the usual area. This girl then progresses to throw herself at DM. And when i say she was throwing herself, i mean throwing herself at him...at fully as she can.

It's fair to say that DM's line of work is bound to attract many many admirers for many reasons. It is up to the guy as to how far he wants to take it right?

So anyway, towards the end of the night, things were looking very cosy between the two. Which is all fine and dandy if he was single. Problem was of course, he's not.

So there we were, the few of us, observing from afar...i think for some of us there was a feeling of almost disbelief mixed with amazement together with the self-satisfaction that the observed were proving old theories correct.

Suddenly a friend of mine said to me.."the saddest thing is that eventhough everyone knows her girlfriend, no one will tell her about it". To be honest, that stopped me in my tracks a little bit. How true. That happened to me.

Someone told me last night that men are never to be trusted, no matter who they are. Men will always be men and they will always be weak. Sometimes you just have to turn a blind eye. What you do is make sure they love you, and put a hundred percent effort into your relationship. What he does outside of that, sometimes you just have no control over.

But can we live like that? Can we really, because we can't get what we really want, settle for second best?

With cynicism like that (sometimes with completely valid reasons), how can we all strive for that fairytale ending??